Who Encourages The Encourager?


This morning, in the silence and serenity of my car, driving home after dropping Garrett off at school, 4 thoughts dawned on me…

1) Who is an Encourager?

2) Why is encouraging important?

3) Why should we stay encouraged?

4) Who encourages the Encourager?

If you’ve been reading my posts for a while, you’ll know that I am passionate about encouraging entrepreneurs to continue on with their calling to succeed in business. I love being able to help them stay the course, staying motivated, inspired and equipped along the way.

Today, I thought about who really is an Encourager? What makes you and encourager? Why it’s important to be an Encourager? Why should we stay encouraged? Who encourages the Encourager?


If you’re a business owner who already understands providing value in terms of tutorials, knowledge, tricks, tips and resources to your potential clients, and it doesn’t even matter whether they purchase or not, you are DEFINITELY an Encourager! You genuinely want to see people move forward and somehow make their lives better even if they never become your customer…


Because of the “Law of Sowing and Reaping”! The understanding of this law, separates those who are doing things for a perceived gain, as opposed to being there because THEY DO CARE. You are an Encourager if you honestly and genuinely care. When you can absolutely say that you do, people will miraculously flock to you… Why? Because encouragement is something we all need from time to time.


We need to stay encouraged because a lot of people are depending on us… from our family, our team members, our clients… Most people go through the motion of simply functioning because they have to. They are on auto-pilot even if they are breaking inside.  If you’re not encouraged, you will not be a fertile ground for success because you will not be operating from the right heart. Discouraged people have resentment and bitterness.  Encouraged people come from a place of abundance and plenty.

Also, when you’re encouraged, you’re more likely to learn, digest and implement the specialized skills you need to succeed in your business.  I always say to my clients, I cannot empower and equip you if you’re discouraged.


This is what really got me thinking today. Most of the time, people who encourage a lot get to experience moments when they too need to be encouraged… I personally am one to feel depleted from time to time and need reinforcement and re-assurance.

Here’s what I do when I am feeling that the encourager needs to be encouraged:

1) I turn to prayer and quiet time with God and reading His Word…
2) I read a few Daily Devotionals I subscribe to and it really blows my mind when it answers the concerns I have for that particular day.
3) I reach out to trusted friends and share with them my thoughts just like my good friend Marion Carlon, Author of “True Power of Love and Forgiveness” who immediately came to my rescue today with such incredible words of wisdom… when he left me that voicemail, it spoke directly into my spirit as if he knew exactly what I was going through and what I needed to hear to stay encouraged… It’s as if it came from God’s heart through his mouth!
4) I muster strength to encourage more people!

So who encourages the Encourager? I gave you my secrets on what does it for me… I’d love to hear how you stay encouraged?

Let’s stay connected to keep on encouraging each other!

As always…

I Am Cheering You On To Your Success!

Emma 😉

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12 thoughts on “Who Encourages The Encourager?

  1. Great post. Who Encourages the Encourager? I was anxious to see your answer. And I was right. You turn to prayer, to our Creator. Keep up the good work.
    All the best to you, your family and your business.
    Manny Bermas

  2. Hello Maureen!
    Thanks for the kind words… much appreciated! I always say “When you speak from the heart, the other hearts listen” 😉

  3. Hello Manny! Thanks for your comment… Yes, HE is my utmost encourager… that’s the only reason I am able to encourage others and inspire them to do the same… that’s the essence of Relational Marketing or relationship marketing! Blessings to you and your family!

  4. GREAT post that I found at exactly the right time – when my ‘well of inspiration’ was running low. You and I share the same passion, and it is my mission to keep my clients on track and focused on their vision of how they want the future to look.
    Yesterday I had a 3 hour lunch with a Financial Advisor client who wants to transition from ‘real life’ sales to a New Media life. They left our meeting inspired with what the possibilities are, and sent me 5 emails full of ideas. I filled them up during our lunch.
    I, in turn, was running low and feeling the correlation between me giving them inspiration and being drained in the process. This post is PERFECT for me on a Sunday morning as I look to refill my tank.

  5. Hello Amy! Thanks for stopping by and sharing your thoughts. I am happy to hear that you found a “well of inspiration” from my post. Congratulations on your client whom you’ve helped transition to a “New Media Life”… a celebration is in order! Stay inspired and stay in touch… All My Best to you! Emma

  6. Wow! Thanks for the “pingback” – Chris Brogan is truly my blogging hero! I appreciate the celebration and inclusion of my post… I am grateful beyond words… Emma

  7. Great post Emma I found your link on Chris Brogan.com today.
    I struggle with this as well. I’m normally the guy who’s driving and moving people.
    I find journaling, reading biographies and working out all help me stay enthusiastic and on target.

  8. Hello Doug! Thanks for stopping by and leaving a comment… I just left one on yours! Ha, ha! What an honor for us to be special mention in Chris Brogan’s Blog Post today… He’s my blogging hero! Glad you found some inspiration in my post… I love journaling too! If there is one thing I’ll do even if I don’t get paid for it, it’s blogging, writing, encouraging! Hmmm, reading biographies? Sounds great! My 9-year old son and I just finished reading Thomas Jefferson for his book report and I think we just found a new hobby together… reading biographies and making a point to visit the places mentioned in those books! Now on the list… Monticello and University of Virginia! Take care, Doug! See you around! Emma